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Yes man,No man

Yes man, No man Say yes to every opportunity in your life Say yes to the life you dream for Say yes to your passions Say yes to anything which gives you happiness and satisfaction in  your life hello, I am Jagadeesh rapeti I love to motivate people and sharing my knowledge to get motivate myself. OK Now, here I have two things to explain to you, what is the difficulty in being a yes man and when and which circumstances you should say NO.these are things you exactly what you want to know isn't it. Here we have again two aspects one saying yes to self and another aspect is to say Yes to others. In both scenarios, we need to say No some times. what is the difficulty in say no to yourself, a situation where you don't correlate with what you are doing and what you want to achieve. for example, your target is to put down your weight, but you are a binge eater and if you cannot say no to that binge eating, it is very difficult to attain what you want. So to gain somet...

value to human than money

value to human than money I don't agree with this statement totally. will you agree the money doesn't have value? if you ask which eye is important is that your left or right eye. you must say both are important. because human life runs on trades and agreements, let me convince you why and how? You are a restaurant owner and I am a customer, what is the deal between you and me, I pay money, you provide food that the deal, isn't it. likewise, you can many examples in each and every movement where money plays a major role between any two human beings. if you still not convinced, I will go back to our human history. let's start from the stone age, in the stone age the link between humans is food, only food because there was no money involved at that time. they used to go as a group and kill a big animal and share it among the group. later trade system started you know barter system, means exchange of goods or things, Let's say as an example one person cult...

being a student of life

being a student of life you are going on an express high at a speed of 140kmph and you are in the back seat of your car. let us take the other instance, you are going on the express high way at a speed of 140kmph and your ar in the driver's seat of your car. what is the difference in both the instants? in the first instance, your life is in the driver's hand, and in the second instance, your life is in your hand. which one do you prefer? So taking control of your own life by executing each decision of your own, leads a successful and satisfactory life, rather than depending on someone always to take your decisions and running an unsatisfied life. I am Jagadeesh Rapeti and I do share knowledge and motivate others to develop and motivate myself. be a student of your own life. let us take you are going to write a competitive exam. let us say the competitive exam is your life. and you are the student. how you are going to succeed in the exam. 1. preparat...

If you respect time ,time will respect you

If you respect time, time will respect you Do you think money is valuable? Do you think human life is valuable? And Do you think decisions in life is valuable?  if you say yes for all these questions and if you agree the time is the main superset for all these three questions. Then let us discuss the importance of time and the value of time.  I am Jagadeesh rapeti and I do share my knowledge and motivate people to motivate and develop myself. now let us start. The one and only unstoppable thing in the universe is "Time".Time is indefinite, No one knows when it was started and when it will be going to end. Human life is a very very small and negligible portion of the time. isn't it? In your life, Money is valuable, I hope the majority agrees because that is a need to even fulfill our basic needs. Then, will you throw it out or misuse the money at any cost.No isn't it. if you found a 100 rupee note while you are walking on the road, will you just leave i...

Life isn't about finding yourself, life is about creating yourself

Life isn't about finding yourself, life is about creating yourself one of the great quotations of George Bernard Shaw who was an Irish playwright, critic polemicist , and a political activist. from his so many extraordinary quotations, this is one of life learning quotations. you always try to find yourself instead of creating yourself. let me elaborate on,  right from your birth, you are being safeguarded by your parents or your guardians , who  guides in each every step you take, to move forward which makes you easy, as it looks like a blueprint of your life which laid already for you by somebody. you are just trying to find yourself. but it is impossible you cannot find yourself because you are searching for yourself in the wrong place. let me keep in simple words. right from your birth, you are taught by your elders to follow what they did. so I hope you understood what the great George Bernard shaw wants to say with this quotation. so stop findin...

Be Honest in everything

Be Honest in everything  Have you ever faced any difficulty in telling lies, because if you start with one lie it might end up with hundreds of lies to cover up the story? have you ever felt like a failure because telling lies makes you untrustworthy? Have you ever depressed because telling lies makes you so stressed in life? with these, you would know the importance and the value of honesty. https://youtu.be/Q5YvC_GXiQI Being honest makes you trustworthy Being honest makes you very successful in life Being honest keeps you mentally and physically healthy I could recollect a childhood story, it is a known story but a very interesting story. Once upon a time, there lived a  poor woodcutter named Ramu. He cutting wood from the trees from the forest and sell to merchants was his livelihood. One day he was cutting a tree with his iron axe at the bank of a river. Suddenly the axe got slipped from his hands and fell into the river. he was so worried because it was th...

Your are the product of your decision

 'I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions.'   Stephen Covey Do you blame others always for what is happening in your life Do you feel like a victim of your own life Do you suppose others to take decisions always in your life? try to answer these questions to yourself. Yes, So many among us still blaming the external circumstances for our failures or outcomes in our life.  But the hidden fact or the bitter fact is "You are the product of your own decisions but not the circumstances " If you sow a mango seed and after some time the tree grows and start giving oranges, will you agree with this statement, I am sure the answer is a BIG NO. Everyone knows mangoes come from a mango tree and oranges come from an orange tree and you cannot alter for sure at any circumstances, and it is a fact. You have chosen Engineering as your career by holding an Engineering degree in your hand and you are aspiring to be a Medical Doctor is it pos...

There is a light at the end of the tunnel

There is a light at the end of the tunnel There are better days ahead which gives the same meaning for the saying"there is a light at the end of the tunnel" .means in a difficult situation in your life arise, don't lose hope to overcome your difficulties and move towards the light which at the end of the tunnel(present difficulty). for every question there lies an answer,  for every cause, there is a reason,  for every problem, there is a solution Let me share my life experience, In the year 2001, I was left with a debt of Rs 15 lacs as a guarantor, because of the betrayal of one of my friends, which was lots of money at that time, and its almost the end of my life and almost had a situation of committing suicide. No kiths and kins helped because you know the saying, when you laugh the world laughs with you, if you weep you weep alone, no one comes to you to solve your problems. isn't it. But I didn't lose hope, fought back, I solved all my problem...

Think beyond Targets

Think beyond targets always takes you to the place of your desired destinations. ok setting your goals and targets is one aspect. After setting a goal or a target, now question arise on how to achieve that goal or how to reach the target. now the practical think comes into picture the real tips and very important to follow to reach your goal or to achieve your target first thing is your mindset your mind is a very powerful tool.set your mind such that and tel to your mind the importance of that target why you need to reach on a regular basis. here comes another factor is will power.  will power plays a great role in setting and achieving your targets. the second one challenges so many challenges may come in your way to reach your goal you should face the challenges and move forward towards reaching your goals. and next, eliminate your weakness visualize and establish clarity for the next level. after kept yourself on the track towards reaching your tar...